The vote in January is to elect a new Diocesan Bishop. Our General Synod, which will be voting on changing the Marriage Canon, will meet in June of 2019.janura
Happy thanksgiving, Reverend Andrea Brennan says, greeting me with a warm smile and a hug. Dressed in black jeans and earthy tones, the Fernie church minister matches the fall colours around downtown. The neckline of her loose-fitting poncho reveals the white of a clerical collar.
She pushes open the heavy wooden doors to the old stone church, revealing a long traditional hall filled with pews. Heavenly light from colourful stained glass fills the room.
Brennan is one of the most recognizable faces around town for one particular reason - she香蕉视频直播檚 always smiling. For almost three years she has served as the minister of the Christ Church Anglican in Fernie.
Behind the everlasting smile is a person confident in what they believe in and not afraid to challenge the status quo.
Aside from breaking the stereotype by being a female minister, Brennan is also openly queer. She is also serving at a time when her denomination is considering marrying same-sex couples.
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Something that Brennan doesn香蕉视频直播檛 understand is when people say that being homosexual is against God. She believes it all boils down to love. She admitted that there are several letters in the chapter of Paul where the prophet mentions, 香蕉视频直播楢 man should not lie with another man香蕉视频直播.
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Brennan lives her life openly and has accepted that she is known as 香蕉视频直播榯he weird one in that church over there that doesn香蕉视频直播檛 wear shoes, sometimes with pink hair香蕉视频直播.
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Brennan香蕉视频直播檚 very first homily (reading of scripture) in Fernie began with an apology. This triggered some laughter in the congregation.
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Her speech concluded with an offer of private conversation, if someone is offended or upset by something she has said.
She recalled one day, a church goer who always sat with her arms folded, approached Brennan and invited her for tea at her home. Despite dreading a possible lecture, she agreed.
In conversation, the woman said, 香蕉视频直播淚 really didn香蕉视频直播檛 want to like you香蕉视频直播.
The women went on to explain that she didn香蕉视频直播檛 like that she was coming from the east or that she was a woman. But when Brennan walked through the doors for the first time, the woman admitted it challenged all her preconceptions.
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The woman further explained that hearing Brennan say to them that they had permission to question why things were the way they were, opened up doors that had been closed shut for years.
From a young age, Brennan has been called to serve in some capacity and has always enjoyed helping others. As she grew older and finished her high school education, she decided to pursue a career in teaching. Almost finished university, Brennan discovered that she didn香蕉视频直播檛 have the grades to enter teachers college. Instead, she decided to study English and philosophy.
Now an educated woman with a resume to pursue a multitude of careers, Brennan froze, unsure what she wanted. During this time, she attended church again and realized how much she missed it. After some time she became a layperson, with a new goal of becoming a lay-minister. When she approached her Rector about becoming a lay-minister, he instead encouraged her to consider priesthood.
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Acknowledging this, her Rector told her to keep it in the back of her mind.
While on a retreat at a convent, Brennan spent five days in silence, pondering what she should do. She left feeling encouraged and returned a year later for another five days, with a new idea of pursuing monastic life.
On the second retreat and after much discernment (meditation), Brennan approached her Reverend Mother and told her that she was thinking of becoming an Anglican nun.
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Brennan rejected the idea at first but realized after leaving the retreat that her Reverend Mother was right 香蕉视频直播 seven years without privacy, as an extremely introverted person, was not the path for her. Not having materialistic wealth didn香蕉视频直播檛 bother her and neither did a limited wardrobe, but not having a place to be alone bothered her tremendously. It was at this point that she decided to apply to Seminary.
What ultimately cemented her decision to serve was something Brennan experienced while in meditation on the second retreat.
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Writing down what she heard on a piece of paper, a sister confirmed that there were no other men on the grounds. Frightened and confused, Brennan returned to the same spot for several days, and waited.
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Making that decision and surrendering her life to that, Brennan explained, was very hard to do. But she said once she did, she felt an overwhelming sense of peace.
Brennan was ordained in October of 2007 at St. Paul香蕉视频直播檚 cathedral in London, Ont., the same cathedral where she was baptized 40 years earlier.
Before coming to Fernie, Brennan worked at the Anglican Diocese of Huron in southwestern Ontario in a small town called Dorchester.
Asked about her drive to help people, Brennan said that in order for the world to be a better place, we have to have relationships with each other.
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She added that if we could stop looking at our differences and start looking at our similarities, and see each other through the lens of love, then we can change the world.
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In saying this, Brennan also explained that her congregation is a safe place for anyone to come.
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香蕉视频直播淭hey called a priest who is tattooed and pierced,香蕉视频直播 continued Brennan, referring to herself.
Sometimes, Brennan says she has to explain to people why she has a certain piercing or tattoo behind her ear.
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Currently, the marriage canon for the Anglican Church says that the definition of marriage is between a man and a woman. June of 2019 will go down in history for the denomination when church leaders consider allowing same-sex marriage.
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Christ Church, Brennan explained, is known as an affirming congregation. Brennan cannot, as stated by the doctrine of the Anglican Church, marry two same-sex people. However, if they were to be civilly married, their marriage could be blessed at the church.
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The General Synod of the Anglican Church of Canada meets once every three years. In order for the canon to be changed, the motion has to be approved at two successive Synod meetings, requiring a minimum of six years香蕉视频直播 time.
Since 2002, when gay marriage was legalized in Canada, the Anglican Church has been discussing changing the canon.
By comparison, the ordination of women into the Anglican Church took 18 years to complete.
Forty years ago, female lay-leaders started a movement to change the canon and allow the ordination of women. Brennan explained that this took some time because, according to scripture, a woman must remain silent and a woman must defer. Brennan noted that although it took 18 years, it was the male clergy who voted in favour of this.
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