A Cariboo area mom whose son died from cancer at the age of five is eager to help others with the grieving process.
Jenn Rempel's son Tristan was originally diagnosed with ependymoma when he was six months old. Tristan received treatment and was eventually declared cancer-free. Eighteen months later in January 2021 they learned the cancer had returned. Ependymoma is a type of tumour that can form in the brain or spinal cord. It can occur at any age, but most often occurs in young children.
After Tristan's death on Jan. 19, 2023, Jenn and her husband Matt Rempel along with their three other children grieved as a family.
They had some successes, which has inspired Jenn to want to help others.
She has enrolled in two grief certificate programs for this fall and this past May was invited to speak to a team at the Child Development Centre in Williams Lake about helping guide children through grief.
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She described her CDC talk as a kick-starter and said she hopes to put together a course for schools, health care workers and support people to help people.
The timing is right, she added.
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