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At last week香蕉视频直播檚 Okanagan Public Schools board meeting, something unsettling happened香蕉视频直播攏ot in what was said, but in what was left unsaid. During a moment meant to celebrate inclusion, visibility, and artistic contribution, one trustee made a deliberate choice to sit out香蕉视频直播攍iterally.
Tyson Cook, a 14-year employee of the school district and a well-loved public performer known as drag queen Freida Whales, was being recognized by the board for receiving the City of Kelowna香蕉视频直播檚 2024 Honour in the Arts Award. It was a significant moment, especially given Cook香蕉视频直播檚 resilience in the face of ongoing harassment from far-right groups like Action4Canada, who香蕉视频直播檝e targeted him simply for being an openly gay man who also happens to perform in drag and promote literacy through family-friendly programming.
When it came time for a group photo with Cook and the trustees, everyone stood香蕉视频直播攅xcept trustee Amy Geistlinger. She remained in her seat, shuffling papers and avoiding the camera, despite being mere steps away. Minutes later, she was smiling in other group photos, showing her selective participation was no accident. I sat in the gallery and watched. It wasn香蕉视频直播檛 subtle. It wasn香蕉视频直播檛 ambiguous. It was a message. And it was disturbing.
Geistlinger香蕉视频直播檚 use of her trustee chair as a pulpit for advancing religious dogma香蕉视频直播攚hat she calls 香蕉视频直播渃onvictions香蕉视频直播澫憬妒悠抵辈is beginning to be well documented. For further insight, read about a statement she made publicly at the latest BC School Trustees Association AGM in an expanded version of this column . But her ongoing campaign to marginalize queer and trans people under the guise of 香蕉视频直播渇reedom of belief香蕉视频直播� must be seen for what it is: an abuse of public office.
Following the school board meeting, I reached out to Geistlinger directly to ask why she refused to join the group photo with Cook. She replied:
"Mr. Cook stated that 'Tyson had nothing to do with [the award].' He said that it was his drag queen persona, Freida Whales, that was being recognized, not Tyson Cook as a CEA. Why would we celebrate work unrelated to Board and school district business?
Our schools are welcoming spaces. So long as we are free to celebrate or not celebrate things according to our own convictions, our schools remain safe, inclusive places. If anyone is forced to celebrate something, that is no longer a safe environment."
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While it香蕉视频直播檚 true the award was for Freida Whales香蕉视频直播� artistic work, Tyson Cook香蕉视频直播攖he person behind Freida香蕉视频直播攊s a respected, longtime employee of the school district. It was the board that chose to recognize him at a public meeting, linking his community contributions to the values of the district. Would she have remained seated if it were a student being recognized under the same circumstances?
By refusing to stand in support香蕉视频直播攁nd then using that moment to parse what is and isn't 香蕉视频直播渂oard business香蕉视频直播澫憬妒悠抵辈Geistlinger reinforces a dangerous double standard. Would she snub a teacher being recognized for community work in a church? Or a coach winning an award unrelated to school sports? Her response suggests her principles only activate when queerness is involved.
Worse, her notion of a 香蕉视频直播渟afe, inclusive place香蕉视频直播� appears to be one where straight, cisgender, religiously conservative adults feel protected from having to even acknowledge 2SLGBTQIA+ people in public. That香蕉视频直播檚 not inclusion香蕉视频直播攊t香蕉视频直播檚 erasure.
Since I was quoted in a 香蕉视频直播 article about this event (read it here), I香蕉视频直播檝e received a wave of hate-filled messages. People have called me a pervert, immoral, and worse. This is how bigotry gains traction香蕉视频直播攖hrough the actions of officials like Geistlinger who provide it with respectability.
Character is revealed in the moments we choose to stand香蕉视频直播攐r refuse to. Trustee Geistlinger stayed seated during a celebration of a queer educator. Put succinctly, it香蕉视频直播檚 performative exclusion cloaked in conviction.
We must ask: If a trustee cannot show up for all students香蕉视频直播攅specially those already targeted and marginalized香蕉视频直播攄o they belong in the role at all?
But how do we begin to transform this kind of ingrained thinking? As someone who grew up in a fundamentalist Christian environment, I know firsthand how deeply these beliefs are rooted香蕉视频直播攏ot just in doctrine, but in fear, guilt, and shame. They香蕉视频直播檙e taught not simply as values, but as absolutes, reinforced with the terrifying weight of eternal consequences. Even for those who want to question them, it香蕉视频直播檚 a steep and lonely climb. And when these beliefs come bundled with a sense of righteous duty to "save" others, they香蕉视频直播檙e pushed forward at any cost香蕉视频直播攐ften regardless of the trauma or harm they leave in their wake.
Wouldn香蕉视频直播檛 it be something香蕉视频直播攎aybe even a small miracle香蕉视频直播攊f those so determined to preach and judge could instead pause, reflect, and truly listen? If they could sit, without agenda, and hear the lived experiences of those they seek to other? That kind of openness has been known to soften hearts. And sometimes, it香蕉视频直播檚 how minds begin to change.
~ Dr. Wilbur Turner
