Did you know that May 18th to the 25th is considered Paramedic Services Week?

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It started as EMS (Emergency Medical Services) Week back in 1974, a government gesture that flared up and burned out just as fast. It vanished like a good idea in a boardroom full of budget cuts. It wasn香蕉视频直播檛 until 1992, when the American College of Emergency Physicians gave it mouth-to-mouth, that it came back to life. Since then, one week in May gets carved out to nod in the direction of paramedics. A cordial acknowledgement to the ones who tow the line between life and death.

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We were dispatched to a call for a cardiac arrest. Middle-aged male. Public location. No further details.

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We pulled him out. Did everything we were trained to do. Compressions. Drugs. Shocks香蕉视频直播� Hope. We worked on him as hard as we could on the way to the hospital. My partner and I were in the back, and a police officer drove the rig for us. Always an adventure as police are used to driving with a little more vigour and agility. Getting thrown around while trying to insert needles, breathing tubes, and administer time-sensitive medication isn香蕉视频直播檛 your typical Tuesday 香蕉视频直播� unless you香蕉视频直播檙e a paramedic. In which case香蕉视频直播� it can be.

When we got to the hospital downtown, we maneuvered the man on our stretcher down corridors, past other patients stacked like boxes along the pastel hallways in some forgotten warehouse of the damned. You can feel the inquisition of peering eyes staple themselves to the back of your neck as you roll by. But your busy, so you pay it no mind, other than to feel it.

We got him into a trauma room and handed over care while explaining our interventions en route.

But that day, hope and skill wasn香蕉视频直播檛 enough.

A doctor took over. Called it. Just like that. And then the body 香蕉视频直播� no longer a person 香蕉视频直播� was covered by a thin characterless sheet and all the bustle and all the noise was stilled. He was dead and we were tired.

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As I typed up our paperwork, retelling the story of death, a doc came around and handed out slices of pizza. A small kindness for the medics still jammed in the hallway with patients on stretchers and IVs hanging from portable poles. No real place to sit. No real time to process. Just a hallway and another call waiting. This is commonplace in our hospitals. Hallways and the dead coexisting, sometimes as one, and some poor medic trying to finish paperwork and inhale any bit of food they can before the next run.

I took the slice. It smelled good 香蕉视频直播� like grease and basil and the perfect un petit peu of distraction. I was about to bite in when I saw her. The wife. The widow.

She香蕉视频直播檇 just come through the ER doors. Her face was blotchy and wet. Eyes red. The kind of pain that no mirror should ever reflect back at you. The kind that only comes from death. She saw me and bounded toward me.

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I delivered the death notification with a doomed slice of pizza still held precarious in my hand.

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I walked over to the trash can and let it fall into the black.

It wasn香蕉视频直播檛 guilt, exactly. It wasn香蕉视频直播檛 even sadness. It was something quieter. Heavier. Like the realization that while I got to move on to the next call, she香蕉视频直播檇 be stuck in this one for the rest of her life. That香蕉视频直播檚 a hard one to grapple with. But that notion is one I confronted many times throughout my career as a medic.

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This is the job. To face inhumanity with such repetition, that speaking about it no longer seems viable. You just show up and do the best you can. Until you can香蕉视频直播檛. 

I was diagnosed with PTSD in 2017. I have never returned to work. After countless hours in therapists香蕉视频直播� chairs, occupational stress injury clinics, it was decided that I was unfit to return. My uniform now hangs in the shadows of my closet. My nametag collects dust. Yet, each time I go to pick it up, it香蕉视频直播檚 still weighted by the heft of memory and loss.

Paramedics aren香蕉视频直播檛 superheroes. We香蕉视频直播檙e just people. Tired, often hungry, sometimes sullen. We carry trauma in invisible duffle bags and hope it doesn香蕉视频直播檛 burst open on a Tuesday.

So, this Paramedic Services Week, if you know one, thank them. And if you don香蕉视频直播檛, that香蕉视频直播檚 okay too. Just remember that when you hear the wail of a siren, someone香蕉视频直播檚 sprinting toward pain all while carrying their own.

This week, I will pause to reflect. To Remember. 

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I will remember you. 

This week. 

Every week.

Falkland resident Matthew Heneghan, a Salmon Arm Secondary graduate, is an author, podcaster and public speaker.