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Canadians in New Zealand reflect on the global COVID-19 pandemic

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Rose Mirza with her two children. (Submitted to Black Press Media)
Whether a Canuck in Canada or a Kiwi in New Zealand, the emotional impact of living through COVID-19 lockdown has been universal. A group of Can-iwis 香蕉视频直播 Rose, Jen and Mel 香蕉视频直播 report from the other side of the world.During COVID lockdown, Rose Mirza香蕉视频直播檚 mother died in Montreal of cancer. No one from her family could go to the funeral.Rose was 15,209 km away, in Albert Town, , where she has lived for years, raising her two children.Pre-COVID, Rose had booked flights to visit her mum, but was delayed because of an issue with passports for her children. Just as that was resolved, COVID struck.香蕉视频直播淚t was horrible. My mum died July 8. She had lung cancer and I hadn香蕉视频直播檛 seen her in two years. It sucks. My dad is in a home in Canada and my brother is in the States, and he couldn香蕉视频直播檛 cross the border. My dad has dementia, so he didn香蕉视频直播檛 know what was going on.香蕉视频直播滺er grief is still raw, knowing her mother died unsupported by close family. Seven months since COVID -19 claimed the life of its first Canadian victim 香蕉视频直播 an elderly British Columbian rest home resident 香蕉视频直播 more than 10,000 Canadian families have had similar experiences, unable to properly participate in grief by honouring a loved one with a get-together and ceremonial farewell.Gathered together, this is the first time Rose香蕉视频直播檚 friends have heard her story.香蕉视频直播淪he was in hospital and luckily she had a retired friend who had been running a nursing home 香蕉视频直播 And my mum called her and asked, 香蕉视频直播楥an you take care of me?香蕉视频直播 That was the only way she was able to get out of hospital. She lasted 45 days in her house.香蕉视频直播漈he tale is told. There are hugs from Canadian neighbours Jen and Mel. Soon the chat is flowing again, assisted by a glass of wine, a toast to mothers and laughter at the antics of Rose香蕉视频直播檚 young daughter cartwheeling around the lounge, dressed in a long cape.

Staying apart, keeping in touch

No matter where you were in March or April, the fear of being alone was just the same.While the Can-iwis kept in touch with family over phones or laptops, actual experiences ended up being worlds apart.Midwife Jen is from British Columbia and has lived with her Kiwi fishing guide husband Calum and their children in Albert Town for eight years.During lockdown, Jen was one of the few people allowed out as an essential worker.香蕉视频直播淭he babies kept coming. They didn香蕉视频直播檛 get the note.香蕉视频直播漇he had to get a 香蕉视频直播渕idwife on call香蕉视频直播 sticker for her car to protect her from complaints she was breaking lockdown protocols.Meanwhile, her husband was on 香蕉视频直播渙n holiday香蕉视频直播 at home with the kids.Former hospitality worker Mel Morden, of Atikokan, Ontario, has lived in Albert Town with her Kiwi husband Craig for more than 10 years. They have two young sons.She lost her job during COVID lockdown. Hospitality businesses weren香蕉视频直播檛 allowed to open, and New Zealand香蕉视频直播檚 border closures and loss of international visitors forced business restructuring once restrictions lifted. Mel has since found work with a hardware chain.She and her family enjoy fishing in the Clutha River, playing with hula hoops on the law, and dropping in unannounced on neighbours and friends.香蕉视频直播淥nce we got out of level four and were able to meet more people outside the family bubble, I noticed Carter (aged four) wanted to cuddle the people we were meeting, and was confused about whether he was allowed to.香蕉视频直播淚t didn香蕉视频直播檛 occur to me, how much he had missed human contact. He would be in tears. He wanted to cuddle the girls who worked at the local recycling centre and he wasn香蕉视频直播檛 allowed.香蕉视频直播淧oor Carter. I told him when we got to level one, he could go for it.香蕉视频直播滱s a nation, the country is still locking out the rest of the world, unless you have a Kiwi passport, are an essential worker or need to enter for medical reasons.The ministry of health says border controls will not be relaxed until a successful mass immunization program has been completed.Strict quarantine requirements, plus Canada heading into another period of lockdown, doesn香蕉视频直播檛 inspire the Can-iwis into booking tickets home anytime soon, because no one wants to spend 14 days in a hotel room when they get back to New Zealand.Jen believes the New Zealand borders may not open until 2022.

Go hard, go early, get lucky

When New Zealand香蕉视频直播檚 Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern decided in March to 香蕉视频直播済o hard and go early香蕉视频直播 into lockdown, the Can-iwis heard some criticism from folks back home.Jen香蕉视频直播檚 dad told her New Zealand was being ridiculous, and that the Kiwis were going to kill their economy.香蕉视频直播淓veryone had a thought about whether New Zealand was doing it right or wrong and so there were funny conversations at home.香蕉视频直播
Mel Morden and Jen. (Submitted to Black Press Media)
Mel Morden and Jen. (Submitted to Black Press Media)
Now, as New Zealand has resumed a near normal life and Canada remains in quasi-lockdown, the Can-iwis find it hard to watch their loved ones continue to suffer.The Kiwis have been moving freely since June (early October for Auckland, New Zealand香蕉视频直播檚 largest city).Jen feels awkward telling her parents she just went to an event or her kid香蕉视频直播檚 games.香蕉视频直播淪o I have just quit talking about what we are doing down here. I just send them funny videos, just some entertainment.香蕉视频直播滿el noticed that despite being able to call, there is a disconnect in terms of truly understanding each others香蕉视频直播 experiences, and the emotional impact of words.Her mother kept reminding Mel香蕉视频直播檚 kids to wear masks, even though they are not being deemed necessary in New Zealand. In Albert Town (population about 2,500), there香蕉视频直播檚 been life without masks in public since April 香蕉视频直播 unless you still want to wear one.That caused confusion for young Carter, who worried about whether his New Zealand and Canadian families were safe.香蕉视频直播淲e had to have a whole lot of chat about what she could say to Carter. It makes it harder to understand when they can香蕉视频直播檛 leave home without a mask. Equally, it was hard for me to listen to their stories because I didn香蕉视频直播檛 get what they were going through either.香蕉视频直播滻n New Zealand, there is just one source of official information about COVID-19: the colloquially named 香蕉视频直播淛acinda and Ashley Show.香蕉视频直播滶very day during lockdown level four, the prime minister and the Director-General of Health, Ashley Bloomfield, stood before the nation and explained what was happening.In comparison, Canada had a variety of responses, depending on the province you lived in. That made it confusing for Can-iwis trying to find out how Canada was faring.香蕉视频直播淚n Canada, there were provinces doing their own thing and their prime minister wasn香蕉视频直播檛 giving a talk every night. Here, we all tuned in and some of us now have a crush on Jacinda!香蕉视频直播 Calum said.The Can-iwis definitely feel New Zealand is a 香蕉视频直播渓ucky香蕉视频直播 country. Mel wasn香蕉视频直播檛 prepared for how patriotic she would feel for her adopted home.香蕉视频直播淚t never occurred to me. It was my parents kept saying it to me. New Zealand is doing it right. You are pretty lucky. And we were, yeah! Maybe we are.香蕉视频直播滶ventually, New Zealand香蕉视频直播檚 flow of COVID information became overwhelming. Mel stopped following the bulletins.香蕉视频直播淚 don香蕉视频直播檛 want to bury my head about what I should do. But I can香蕉视频直播檛 keep burdening myself with the rest of the world when I have two young kids. I am in a happy place. Why put myself in a dark place?香蕉视频直播滵espite their freedoms in New Zealand, none of the Can-iwi families feel out of the woods with COVID.香蕉视频直播淯ntil the borders reopen, we are all dreaming of when we can unite again.香蕉视频直播Story by Nathan Weathingtonmountain culture / new zealand aotearoa


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