Sitting in a coffee shop trying to make eye contact with passersby can be super awkward.

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While she started promoting the campaign in June 2022, the idea of interacting with strangers germinated naturally during health measures that kept people apart in 2020. Just before that, Sadauskas left a volunteer position that was demanding 香蕉视频直播� both emotionally and time-wise.

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It was a perfect example of a skill Sadauskas wanted to share, but had to figure out how to create value and growth.

During restrictions on gatherings, she once kayaked at Cameron Lake, and while pulling up at the beach came across another solo human. She walked to her car, wearing an unexpected smile, then she realized it was there because of their small interaction.

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She recalls a co-worker having one up on the table during a meeting regarding the signs. When the second person left, he pulled out his phone 香蕉视频直播� forgetting the sign was up.

A 93-year-old woman came over to chat and the two enjoyed a conversation about her late husband and other such topics a nonagenarian might have on their minds.

Two things struck her. First, someone with 93-year-old eyes could see and read the card. Second, the woman understood the assignment and did not hesitate.

Sadauskas figures one in 10 people actually want to be left alone 香蕉视频直播� or think they do 香蕉视频直播� but most folks really want to connect.

A Parksville resident, she started stocking the signage at places where folks might stop for a spell in her community.

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Her hope now is that folks will take it on without the table signs, simply seeing a yellow flower on a table could signal a desire for conversation.

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Learn more including where to get signs at or email idlovetotalkproject@gmail.com.

christine.vanreeuwyk@blackpress.ca

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